Being married is honestly one of the best experiences ever! I see people bashing marriage or devaluing it but having had relationships before, they don’t compare. The stability & security I’ve found in marriage is something not experienced before. It’s more than “just a piece of paper”.

All men or all women are the same. How many times have you heard that phrase? Well I think it is thrown around too much. If you’ve had bad experiences with some (which I have!) I’m sorry, but please don’t let it keep you from meeting someone else!

I don’t believe the perfect man or woman for you exists. Sorry! We are all imperfect but despite that I’ve not had to feel like I’m “settling” by not finding Mr. Perfect because guess what? I’m not Mrs Perfect!! So many of us go about with our wishlist, ticking things off or walking away if set boxes don’t get ticked. But guess what you ain’t got it all either

Can marriages break down just as relationships can? Of course. But if God is at the centre, then we gonna work it out, everytime.

Though one may be overpowered by another, two can withstand him. And a threefold cord is not quickly broken

Ecclesiastes 4:12

Wait on God. Wait for Him to show you the person he has for you, don’t rush. And in the meantime, work on yourself, become the wife or husband your future partner needs.